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Restored 

29 Saturday Aug 2015

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faith, family, football, obedience, promise, restoration

  

When the Lord called us out to Texas my family and I had to walk away from family, friends, church family, and our football family. One of the hardest things for my husband was having to give up coaching his football team. He literally cried {that NEVER happens ever}. Those kids were his heart. He loves coaching and we had built our family on faith, family, and football. Moving was NEVER on our radar and to some we seemed a little crazy {to most…a lot crazy} but to us this was our life. We knew the Lord was directing us to move. Our obedience to the Lord came at a price but God delights over us when we trust him especially when the cost seems to be too high. It’s been 4 years since my husband last coached football and this season he had an opportunity to coach again. Yahoo!! I love to see God restore to us the desires of our heart. He promises to give us far more than we ever gave up for his sake. He’s faithful like that. We don’t always see how or when but he will restore…eventually. Hold onto hope that restoration is in the plan for your life. Count on it. Depend on it. It WILL happen!!!

Be Offensive 

27 Thursday Aug 2015

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boundaries, football, respect, valued

  
Never before have I believed such a truth. In order for me to maintain a healthy relationship with myself I MUST have boundaries {something that indicates or fixes a limit on behavior or people}. This is an act of love towards me, for me, and by me. No one can determine for us where our boundary lines should be drawn. {I love football so forgive the football analogies but they work and have helped me to see this subject differently} In this life we will deal with all sorts of people {teams}. Takers. Givers. Bullies. Family. Co workers and we will learn that not everyone plays fair. We get hurt. We hurt others. Being on the defense {waiting for someone to hurt us…anticipating an offense} we become fearful. We withdraw. We get bitter. We build imaginary walls that becomes an attack against ourselves. We were meant for relationships. Being on the offense {having boubdaries} allows us to call the plays for ourselves. Sure, not everyone will oblige peacefully but that’s their problem not ours. Not having boundaries {an offensive plan} allows everyone open access to us. Not everyone should have that privilege. Take a look at past experiences and I’m sure you’ll see areas of weakness {we all have them}. You’ll notice those areas are a place of fear. Fear convinces us of a lie. That lie may say “you can’t say no because they will be hurt” or “just let it go and next time you’ll stand up for yourself” how about “this is the way it’s always been” or “I don’t want to offend anyone.” In all those scenarios YOU lose. You have a right to be treated with respect. NO ONE should be allowed to encroach {to enter by gradual steps or by stealth into the possessions or rights of another} into your territory without your consent. For many years I tried to please, appease, and live by the desires of others. I was miserable! The Lord had to convince me that I was important too…that I had options. I didn’t have to live that way and neither do you. Step away for a bit and make note of what hurts and decide what you can do to stop the pain. Surely this is a process but a worthwhile one. I don’t want you to live another day in fear or behind a wall. It’s time to come out and call the plays that allow you to score and win!! I’m rooting for you and so is all of heaven! 

The Good Ole Days

04 Tuesday Aug 2015

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football, good ole days, memories, no regrets

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Well, today wasn’t so bad after all. I managed to make it out of Walmart alive. Yahoo! Honestly, it really is never that bad unless I get a bad cart and then it’s game on! LOL! So, the summer is coming to a close and for our family that means…football season! We love football and all of my 4 boys have played and 3 currently are. I look back and some of my fondest memories are of watching and cheering my boys on. I miss the days of my oldest playing. Time seems to fly by so fast, you blink, and it’s over. Watching the crowd. Seeing my boy score a touchdown. Crying with joy. Chasing all the littles one around as I am trying to concentrate on the game. Those were the good ole days. But as I was attending my second sons freshman football orientation today I was reminded of all that is to come. More memories. More cheering. More joy. The times that have past are to be cherished but the present must be lived in. If we’re not careful we can look back so far, so long and loose sight of where we are today. As much as I loved my yesterdays I need to fall in love with today. Make new memories. New traditions. There is never going to be another today. Why don’t we stop right now and take a mental note of what today brought us. You may have had a terrible day but, it is not over yet. Don’t linger in the negative. Go make a memory. Hug your babies. Whisper in your hubby’s ear a sweet nothing. Take a picture. Soon enough today will be a “good ole day” you’re looking back on.

Em 🙂

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